Recognizing the Need For A Divorce

Co-Parenting 50/50 After Divorce

18 January 2023

Jackson Robinson

Custody can be a hotly contested issue, especially when one parent decides that they should have full physical custody of a minor child. Many parents feel that parenting should be divided in a fair manner, such as 50/50. Shared custody is a popular option and works well for many families. Read on and find out more about shared or 50/50 custody. 

Is Shared Custody Right for You?

Shared custody seems like a simple way to solve a problem after divorce. After all, both parents can spend time with the minor child. However, parents should be ready for what life will be like when the child must be continuously moved back and forth. Before you go with shared custody, consider the alternatives:

Joint Custody

Though it sounds just like shared custody, is probably the most popular way to parent after divorce. With joint custody, one parent is chosen to be the primary caregiver for the child. The child remains at the home of the custodial parent most of the time. The other parent then uses visitation to spend time with the child. Visitation can be as generous as the parents wish. Both parents continue to have legal custody of the child.

Sole Custody Without Visitation

This is reserved for cases where the non-custodial parent has been judged to be unfit to parent. This is rare but can take place in instances of abuse or criminal activity by the parent.

Bird's Nest Custody

This is another rare form of custody where parents spend a few weeks at a time with the child. The unusual thing about nesting is that the child remains in one home while the parents move in and out.

What to Know About Shared Custody

Even though both parents have equal time with the child, plans must be made so that each parent and the child know what to expect. Many parents of school-age children opt for a school night and weekend plan so that the child remains in one place during the school week. However, the plan is up to the parents. Here is what else you should know:

• The term 50/50 doesn't have to be taken literally—it's more of a general guideline. Many times, work schedules and the child's activities will affect the percentage.
• Being organized is vital. Parents should use shared calendars to keep updated on doctor's appointments, school events, vacation plans, school projects, and more.
• Parents should reside near each other to avoid lengthy commutes.
• Keeping a set of belongings at each parent's home may help with the organization along with two sets of schoolbooks. 

For more information on child custody arrangements, speak with your divorce lawyer.

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